In March I’ll reach my seven year anniversary of graduating from massage school. I started my business the very next day and last week I officially announced that I’m no longer taking new clients. (We’ll discuss the ins and outs of that another time)
In a nutshell, here’s how I did it:
I knew I wanted massage to be my full time job, so I treated it that way from Day 1. If I didn’t have clients scheduled, I still went to the office as if I had a full schedule, and I used that time to learn about marketing.
I hustled at chair massage, working oodles of Friday nights massaging women who get together to scrapbook.
I asked for help from my family to take the load off at home. I let them help me.
I sent thank you notes to new clients.
I sent thank you notes to regular clients, at least annually.
I never settled for an empty appointment book. In the beginning, I would woo friends in with a discount, or offer complimentary massage to great referral partners.
I embraced new marketing methods, like websites, email, and social media when they became available. I got excited about change, not pissy about it.
I started out small, renting a tiny room and a sliver of desk space in a local chiropractic office and kept my expenses low.
I treated every client like royalty.
I asked for help from my mentor to guide me though difficult situations. I let him help me.
I kept my day job, part time in a local pharmacy. It was great for connecting with potential clients, and keeping me sane, and putting a cushion in my savings account.
I quit my day job. Too many of us slack on Plan A because we have a Plan B. Losing that safety net made me hustle even harder.
I considered my ideal clients and adjusted my schedule to make their convenience my priority.
I listened to my business-owner clients, and read every book they recommended.
I asked for help from my colleagues when I struggled to treat a tough pathology or client. I let them help me.
When I started to feel stifled in my tiny rented room, I moved out into my own office space.
I learned new techniques regularly and advertised that to my clients.
I got active in my local massage community to keep me abreast of new ideas and to keep me passionate about the industry.
I taught a community massage class, to practice my speaking and educating skills.
I asked for help from my friends, to warn me when I overwork. I let them help me.
I set goals.
I rewarded myself when I reached goals, usually with new beautiful artwork for the office or a great massage tool or product.
I got lots and lots of massage. It greatly improved my techniques and allowed me to meet my colleagues.
I rested. A few times a year, two days on a couch watching movies is a great way to recharge (for me).
That’s my nutshell. It’s a great place to be right now.
What’s worked for you?
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Congrats on achieving this. Excellent points too. I was trying to identify my favorite one, and at the end, I realized it was one you didn’t include: N0t being afraid to go out on a limb & be real–being authentic. You rock!
Oooohhh, that’s a good one!
Lovely route you took! 7 years to be where you are is wonderful. Some people never get to the point where they are emotionally satisfied with what they do and to be able to say your inbox is full……well most don’t get that luxury either. The inbox keeps piling high and the stress level goes up too. (that’s why we are here to help!) Sincerest congrats to you and those that supported you during the years.
Andrea
It’s funny, because I feel like I should’ve been able to do this in 5 years. Ah, well, maybe in my next business…
You are so inspirational to many massage therapists. I salute you today! There’s not one bit of advice here that any massage therapist whether they be newbies or seasoned vets, couldn’t benefit from. Thank you!
The bulk of this I learned by watching and learning from successful therapists. I spent lots of money on massage from colleagues, and I asked a ton of questions. Worth every penny.
Congratulations and salutations! Eight years later I am starting this list (with my own variations, of course). The last few months I have been reading you, Laura Allen, and others you both have recommended. I AM setting and meeting goals. I AM a full time therapist, I AM thanking you for inspiration. I love the inspiration you have; it’s honest, funny, and tough. You have taught me to look at my self and say “get over yourself and do it.” Whether my task is to send cards or go to a meeting. Even the small tasks prove to be rewarding. And for that, I thank you. Here’s to a lifetime of everything you need in life.
Thank YOU. I’m glad you’ve found some useful stuff here, that means so much to me. Yay for being a full time MT!
Plan your work and work your plan and it will be well worth it in the end. Congratulations Allissa – this is an achievement that too many businesses never reach.
You help me more than you know.
Congratulations, Allissa. I just opened my own practice last week. On day 2, I was already getting anxious about the big picture! I realized I needed to celebrate the small steps that I am making each day…with every step leading to the big picture. It will come…in time. I loved your list and think I’m on the right track. Thanks for keeping me focused.
I have done and I am still doing all of these things because it works!
Yup, they really do work!
Congratulations Allissa! It is scary when you stop taking new clients. However, I too had to learn (maybe the hard way) it is easier to turn away new business then it is to constantly look your current, valuable clients in the eye and tell them you cannot get them for six weeks – right after their massage. Enjoy this milestone!
It IS really scary. But it seems silly to tell my clients they have to come less often when they’ve been on regular schedules for years.
Great post. Very pithy. Any one of these points could be a long, boring chapter in a big, boring book. This is a much better presentation.
It was so hard to keep it short! Thank you.
Being a newbie and at the bottom of the ladder… I really appreciate posts like this, not just for the pointers but for the hope. Great things can (and will) come if you plan and work hard. Congratulations! (You should check out FB… even my MOM says how proud she is of you.)